Wednesday, April 6, 2011

**Love Sex aur Dhoka**


This time I will talk about love (like I always talk about other intelligent things in life). And definitely this love is not the love of parents and siblings (if you know me well, then you won’t even expect that from me). Love is like an ocean which never dries up, and problems like global warming only increases it or love is like a Rubik’s cube, there are countless numbers of wrong twist and turns, but when you get it right, it looks perfect no matter what way you look at it (Aah! Stop praising my English. Both of these are stolen from someone’s inbox and facebook status). Love is like a glass, grass or brass or any xyz thing according to those boring SMSes which we delete without reading. For some it is divine, for some it is a hormonal imbalance, for some it is all about sex and for some it is simply LOVE. Well I am not here to tell you what this love thing is all about but I just wanted to share something about love, something which I think and experience, something which I have seen other’s thinking and experiencing.

So, let’s have a look on some shortest love stories by some *somebody*, and see what your take on love is.

“I loved her. But it was one sided. She did not know about that. Now I love #$%*!? And there is nothing wrong in this. I can’t become Devdas for somebody. She is my 4th love and even she does not know.*blush*”. – Somebody

“I loved her. She knew about that but she was committed and she told me this thing very late, I thought she would start feeling the same for me and it kept me happy but it was impossible. Now I don’t want to talk to her. Himmat nai hoti *silence*”. – Somebody

“I love her till she loves me; I am not a person to fall in love. I just respect her commitment *proud*”. – Somebody

“I love you. You do not understand. I know you. You are a type of girl who once gets committed then will never break it. You are a girl of character. Why don’t you understand? Do you have a boyfriend? I know you love me. Don’t cha? *frustration*”. – Somebody

“I love him. He is my best friend. I can’t tell him the same. Moreover there is no future. But yea I know I truly love him *sad*”. –Somebody

“I think I love him. I am not sure. He might be my crush, and it will end up as soon as I start talking to somebody else. But right now I think about him and I love doing so. I am not in a relationship. It is just a feeling I am not betraying anybody. And I am happy that this boy helped me to know that I was never in love, they were just my crush *smile*”. – Somebody

“I loved him. I always thought about him, no matter what I did. He looks like shit. But he aspires for a beautiful girl. And later I got to know that he is not the right person and now I don’t talk to him and try not to think about him *confused*”. – Somebody

Well, moving now to the next segment of the blog and the last segment of love i.e. sex. It is the most famous topic no doubt (that is why I have chosen it this time). It might have made you saying “hawww” or raising your eyebrows till now. But I bet you have stopped yawning. Yea, very blatantly I am going to share few bold statements by some *somebody*.

“If a girl has a boyfriend and she is saying that she is a virgin then she is lying *proud*”. – Somebody

“No no I have never got physical even in my mind with the girl I love. But yea I have thought such things with other beautiful girls *laugh*”. – Somebody

“It is obvious to get physical with your crush in the mind, and there is no wrong in this, you won’t get pregnant and everybody does so. You always want to at least kiss the person you love *laugh*”. – Somebody

“Yea I got physical with him in the mind of course *giggles*”. – Somebody

“Love is just a system for getting someone to call you darling after sex”- Somebody

I personally think love is not something to be categorized as pure or impure. You are surely not looking for ghee or something. It is about trueness. There is nothing like untrue love exists for if it is untrue then it is not love. True love never demands, neither sex nor money, it just knows love.


Now the last segment of my blog is dhoka (betrayal), it usually happens along with or after love and sex. For some it is result of circumstances for some it is simply dhoka. Few lucky people marry their love, and a very few survives it. So now *light, camera, action* on dhoka.

“I loved that bitch, but I am not a fool to get fooled after knowing everything, she does everything with everybody, I am feeling free after leaving her *sighs*”. – Somebody

“She loves to be admired. If she is in a relationship then why the hell she talks to someone else? And that too she exchanges love related scraps etc with the other boy. I am leaving her *anger*”. – Somebody

“I loved him a lot. He always wanted to get physical. I never allowed. I just kissed him. But he is now enjoying with some other girl and making me fool. I can’t forgive him. But I can’t even forget him *sob*”. – Somebody

“Of course I am single. Who said I am committed? I am free like you, her or anybody else present here. It is just for fun. Come close I will tell you a secret he is my 15th boyfriend *laugh*”. – Somebody

“Yea I am not single. I am tringle *laugh* I have three boyfriends. All of them are lallu. They are rich and spend money on me. They are just slave of my beauty. I feel guilty sometimes but everything is fair in fashion world *sighs*”. – Somebody

Well, that is love, sex and dhoka for you. You might be in love or were in love or want to fall in love. But always remember commitment is a very big task. Give yourself time, because life is one. Don’t make a partner because you need one; make one because you love him/her.

Let love blossom
Let it fly
Express it here
Don’t feel shy.

(Sorry! I can’t help myself rhyming. Please tolerate as you have done till now)